Author: Saida
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No is Not Selfish!!!
Is it just me, or does anyone else feel that the struggle to set boundaries is rooted in childhood trauma? Adulting hits you hard with the realization of how essential it is to establish those boundaries. Ever been in a situation where someone does something that makes you feel utterly uncomfortable, yet, out of some…
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The art of letting go!!!
Adulthood brings a different perspective on friendships, one that’s rooted in depth and sincerity. It’s a phase where you prioritise quality over quantity. You begin to value those who understand the ebb and flow of life, who don’t demand constant attention but are always there when it matters. These are the friendships that don’t weigh…
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Version 2.0!!
I’ve been taking a trip down memory lane, revisiting my old blog posts to see where my head was at over the years. It’s hard to believe it’s been almost 7 years since I opened up this space. Looking back, I realize it’s about time I start giving this blog the same level of attention…
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30+ and thriving ! “ My journey into marriage”
To be honest, I never imagined this would be my life. As we say in Islam, we have our plans, but God is the best planner. Here are some lessons I’ve learned about marriage so far. Dear Young Men and Women: Embrace Your Journey! Don’t let societal pressures rush you into marriage. It’s a profound…
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Catch up please?
Hello guys, It’s been a minute, I hope you all are having a fantastic year so far, as for me it has been aroller coaster, up and down the hill, am trying to still find a balance withjust a few years shy from my dirty 30’s, anyway, that’s life we don’t alwayshave our shit figured…
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Work, school +social life?? Congratulations you are a superhero 👑
If there is anyone I respect out here is a woman or man that does this three things perfectly well and manages to stay sane, Beginning of 2018 was hard for me, I was just off a long relationship, long is an understatement I wish there was a word that could describe how extensive I…
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Stay Woke!!
Hey there, good people! It’s been a while since my last post, but here we are! Let’s be real—creating content isn’t always easy. But today, I want to talk about progress, because that’s what I’m all about lately: moving forward. For my birthday this year, I decided to make a real change. I’ve always lived…
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BEFORE THE DAWN.
Hey there good people! For the past few months, I’ve been in a bit of a back-and-forth with myself about what my next post should be. Remember when I said this space is like therapy for me? It still is. So, I don’t just write for the sake of it; I write when something stirs…